The discovery of the female G-spot caused a real sensation at one time, although there is still no certainty that it exists. At the same time, only a few people know about such a male zone, but every guy definitely has one and it is much easier to find it. All you need is good lubrication and gentle fingers. And, of course, absolute trust, because not every girl will have access to the most intimate.
Where is the G-spot in men?
Unlike women, who have to search for a mysterious area literally at random, guys don't have to guess its location. The "G" point in men, behind which the famous prostate hides, is located on the front wall of the rectum, about 5 cm above the anus. To the touch it resembles a tubercle the size of a walnut or a chestnut, and in the moment of excitement it swells.
To find a man's G-spot it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also influence the sensitive area from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the center of the perineum (there is usually no hair in this area). For some guys, the erogenous zone may be slightly shifted to the left or right. To find it you can ask your spouse or girlfriend to caress the perineal area with their tongue. From the outside the prostate can be perceived as an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men like to caress the G-spot?
The sensations resulting from prostate stimulation can be very different. Some guys experience incredible pleasure (literally to the point of tears), for others it helps to maintain excitement, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems unpleasant and even painful. But it is definitely worth trying so as not to deprive your man of a special experience. The main thing is to act carefully and slowly, without sudden movements or use of force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation of the area is to examine it during masturbation:
- By applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and the anus just before ejaculation, you can delay the release.
- The impact in the process pushes more blood into the penis, making its pulsation more powerful and more pleasurable.
- Strong rhythmic pressure imitates the process of contraction of the prostate, increasing the intensity of the final phase of orgasm.
- For greater pleasure, it is recommended to caress the G-spot when maximum erection is achieved, as soon as the body of the penis swells along its entire length. If the sensations are unpleasant or subtle, you should wait a while. If at the moment of full arousal there is still no reaction, perhaps this area in a particular man is not considered erogenous. In this case it is better to concentrate on stroking the scrotum and penis, or return to explore the area later.
How to properly stimulate a man's G-spot?
If there is embarrassment or uncertainty in the partner, the first experiment may not be successful. But it is possible that the subsequent search will bring more pleasure if the man truly succeeds in liberating himself. Help in such games will be special devices (finger attachments, vibrating bullets, small vibrator), which are presented in a wide variety in adult stores. You can caress the G-spot in at least two ways:
- From inside. The finger or toy should be well lubricated with lubricant and then inserted into the anus for 5 cm or more, moving in the direction of the pubis. You can find the sensitive "g" spot near the tubercle on the wall of the rectum. And then you need to massage it carefully, observing the man's reaction.
- Outside. Here you can perform stimulation in two ways: oral or manual. A man will be happy to touch the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which can be alternated with passionate kisses. When you caress it with your hands, a gentle water-based lubricant will help improve the glide and give your partner more pleasure. You need to massage the area with the pad of your finger, using circular movements and light pressure.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot pulsates. To increase pleasure, it is necessary to influence it in time with contractions. Adherents of eastern teachings argue that in this way it is possible to delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this regard, the male G-zone has been called the "million dollar spot", and sexologists have developed special techniques to postpone ejaculation. Such exercises will be useful for sexual dysfunction.
Is caressing the G-spot beneficial for a man?
In fact, the stimulation of the area can be compared to a light prostate massage. Only the latter is carried out in a medical facility and does not always bring pleasant sensations, associating men with negativity and embarrassment. Caressing the erogenous G-spot in a romantic setting is a completely different matter: both the atmosphere and the presence of a loved one promote pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and give them more intimate nuances.
As for health benefits, regularly stroking the prostate will be a good prevention of diseases of the male organ. But only on the condition that at the moment there are no pathologies on this side and the massage itself is performed gently, without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
It is not recommended to act on the prostate area if a man suffers from chronic and acute diseases of the reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, prostatic hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urinary disorders, hemorrhoids, anal fissures, etc. If in doubt, it is optimal to use light oral stimulation, excluding anal and manual G-spot massage.